A Slut's Guide To Happiness Podcast - Episode 6: The Underground World of Anonymous Gay Sex - with Orion Pax

顯示更多

Self-reported studies suggest that less than 5% of men identify as either gay or bisexual. However, these studies depend on men openly communicating about their homosexual desires. Real-world experience indicates that there's a much greater proportion of the male population interested in or actively engaged in sucking or fucking other men, despite otherwise publicly identifying as straight. This episode's guest, Orion Pax, now publicly identifies as pansexual, meaning he is attracted to people of all genders. However, for more than two decades, Orion had anonymous sex with other men. For much of that time, due to social stigma and pressures in his personal life, Orion kept these activities secret, exclusively had romantic relationships with women, and thought of himself as essentially straight.

發佈者 CliffMedia

Video Transcription

Welcome back to a Sluts Guide to Happiness,

where your body is imperfectly imperfect,

and it's safe to be as sexual, kinky, queer, or slutty as you want.

I'm your host, Vanessa Cliff,

and today I will be talking with a dear friend

顯示更少 顯示更多

and a creative well of silly and perverted ideas

and the chief video officer at Cliff Media, Orion Pax.

Hello.

Orion is now loud and proud about being a pansexual man,

but that hasn't always been the case.

Yes, very true.

But for more than two decades, you've described being closeted,

hooking up with gay men or with men, with people with penises,

through anonymous encounters arranged online

and often executed in the dark or with masks.

And we'll get into this.

Our viewers, you're going to get to see a deep dive into this experience.

But one of the things that I think is really powerful

that we'll learn from this

is challenging the understanding collectively that we have

about how many people have desires that are not just...

How many men, people with penises, have desires that are not just straight.

And in this case, I'm saying men as people with penises

because we're talking about a normative world

of people, of men who are trying to fit,

who are cisgender men who are trying to fit

...

  • 4,163
  • 35:58
類別