A Slut's Guide to Happiness Podcast - Episode 10 Eroticizing Trauma Fear and Jealousy

Everyone processes relationship jealousy and traumatic experiences, like sexual assault, differently. Some people find that avoiding situations that cause jealousy and avoiding situations that remind them of their past experiences of assault help them remain emotionally healthy. While these strategies are useful for many, Vanessa shares a different, potentially unconventional approach she uses to release trauma, fear and jealousy. Rather than avoiding the jealousy-provoking or triggering experiences, she leans into them, exposing herself to them in intimate settings, asking her partners for help eroticizing them through kink and sexual play. Hearing intense details about the sexual activities of her partners and roleplaying with consensual non-consent (CNC) have allowed Vanessa to overcome years of struggle with these feelings. She offers recommendations for how this approach may be helpful for people exploring options to overcome fears like relationship abandonment and assault.

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Hey, welcome back to a Sluts Guide to Happiness,

where your body is perfectly imperfect

and it's safe to be as sexual, kinky, queer,

or slutty as you want.

I am your host, Vanessa Cliff,

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and you know I love dressing up for you.

So today I have on a shirt

to support your confident, brave slut path,

which is super relevant to what we're talking about today.

So it says, let's see if you can see it here,

I never dreamed I'd grow up to be a super sexy unicorn,

but here I am killing it.

So ladies and gents and other folks,

whenever anyone tries to shame your slut sexuality,

just toss your unicorn mane and hold that horn up high.

So outside of my unicorn rainbow life,

I am also a CEO of Cliff Media,

which as you know, if you've been listening to the podcast

or you've seen our website,

is a female and queer-led production company

that invites all enthusiastically consenting adults

to participate in scenes.

We film content that explores the same scenes

as in this podcast, healthy non-monogamy, loving kink,

joyful community, and empowered female and queer sexuality.

And let me tell you, we just recently wrapped up

one of our largest shoots in Cliff Media history,

and it was significant because of who was there.

It was the first time we were able to deeply integrate

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A Slut's Guide To Happiness Podcast - Episode 10: Eroticizing Trauma, Fear and Jealousy